A Guilt Trip to Chicago
Joe and I just made a quick getaway to Chicago to see a fabulous show at the Goodman Theatre. Upon arriving in town, we deviated from an ingrained ritual and skipped making a lunch of the Bookbinder soup at the Drake Hotel. That divergence undid years of tradition and put me on an epic guilt trip.
My father introduced me to Bookbinder soup as a teenager. He explained that as a young man, he would fill up cheap when arriving in Chicago by stopping at the bar of The Drake’s Cape Cod Room, where Bookbinder soup -- filling on its own -- was accompanied by a behemoth of a bread basket. I vividly remember sitting with my dad at the Cape Cod Room's bar, stuffing ourselves silly with sourdough rolls, soft pretzels, cheese bread, and soup at lunchtime. I pictured him doing the same in his youth.
A sentimentalist, Dad spun meaning out of ritual and made little things feel special.
Joe and I incorporated the Bookbinder tradition into our adult trips to Chicago. For years, we marked our arrivals with bowls of Bookbinder soup and baskets of bread.
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Bookbinder soup with the requisite sherry accompaniment |
Over the years, some wrinkles introduced themselves. First, Hilton -- now the corporate custodians of the Drake’s legacy -- closed the Cape Cod Room for lunch service in the mid-2010s. You could still get the soup in the stuffy Palm Court -- which felt all wrong -- or later, in the woody Coq d’Or bar -- which was more intimate. Deprived of its proper setting, the homeless, sentimental soup somehow did not taste the same.
Next, the marvelous bread basket disappeared. I blame corporate accountants for that egregious elimination. You would have to remind the waiter to bring the sherry. The hotel operator even had to put me on hold to ask around about whether the soup was available. She had obviously never even heard of it.
Finally, during our last Chicago trip in 2019, we learned that the Cape Cod Room had closed altogether. The soup I was served in the Coq d’Or bar in 2019 was cold, lacking in fish, and a watery whisper of the flavorful dish that my dad and I had enjoyed fifty years ago.
For our trip this year, I secured a difficult reservation at Monteverde, one of Chicago’s top restaurants. Fitting in the soup of yore posed a scheduling challenge. Joe -- who is as nostalgic as my dad was -- finally relented when I told him the Bookbinder soup just wasn’t fitting into our agenda.
And so -- with much guilt and feelings of letting down my late father -- we had a Bookbinder-less Chicago weekend.
If my dad were alive today, I am sure I could explain it all to him. A culinary adventurer, he would have applauded the Monteverde reservation and understood about the soup. But I still feel guilty.
Traditions are fun and important and give meaning to the passage of time.
Yet sometimes, traditions can feel like shackles that prevent us from having new experiences. The Drake Hotel itself does not seem to value its own Bookbinder soup heritage. Maybe they, too, felt shackled by the soup, or maybe they just didn’t care.
As for me, I am sure I will enjoy Bookbinder soup again someday -- I might even make it myself to celebrate my dad’s birthday in September. I feel a new tradition coming on.
Reading about our Chicago brought a smile to my face. Skipping the cherished tradition of eating Bookbinder soup was a little bittersweet, but I'm glad we're finding other ways to honor it. Here's to our next adventure!
ReplyDeleteGo to Bender's in Canton for a bowl of Turtle Gumbo soup with a side of Sherry. Worth the Drive.
ReplyDeleteI love that you share these memories. How special your parents were to have made these fun traditions. Our family has its own traditions and if we try and change things up, our children get an attitude about it. Your story brought back my own memories and made my heart all warm and fuzzy! You started my day out with a smile - thank you!
ReplyDeletePeter, your writing is so effortless you make it seem easy. I love this piece; you’re able to take one experience and layer it with resonating meaning from your past to your present. I’m impressed and it’s delicious to read
ReplyDeleteI agree that traditions are fun, until they become shackles. And you want to have time/room for new things, too! Who knows what might become a tradition next. And soft pretzels, cheese bread, oh my -- now I'm craving carbs.
ReplyDeletePeter, I share the same memory with your Dad and Mine at the Cap Cod Rm. Those were the days. Mark
ReplyDeleteWhat don't you try to make it yourself? There are numerous recipes on line ....
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